Friendship stories

Anne Lythgoe (right) with volunteers from Chipping in Bloom who have become friends

Anne’s friendship story

Volunteering with Chipping in Bloom has given Anne Lythgoe a purpose and true friendship. Anne explains how the group welcomed her and supported her through tough times.

Two-and-a-half years ago, I moved to a small village called Chipping, nestled at the edge of the Bowland Fells in Lancashire. I was new to the area and knew no-one.

“Sometimes it’s difficult meeting new neighbours – will we get on, what will they think of me, are they nosey? I needn’t have worried, ours are perfect; helpful, kind, thoughtful and respectful. I hope they think of me the same way!”

Having discovered my interest in gardening, one of my neighbours suggested I come along to a Chipping in Bloom meeting. I went, not sure what to expect, and found a small group of dedicated people focused on making our village a better place to live and visit.

As I became more involved, I discovered that the Chipping in Bloom group enters North West in Bloom every year but from what I saw of the group’s activities, that wasn’t their primary purpose.

I have been involved with Britain in Bloom before while working for a local authority. Chipping was different – it wasn’t a group created and supported by a local authority, and it has very little grant funding.

Anne Lythgoe (right) and friend Jean catch up while working in Chipping's community wildlife garden

The Chipping in Bloom group are ‘focused on making our village a better place to live and visit’

“Instead, I found a group of friends, who welcomed me for who I am. As I still work, I don’t have a lot of spare time for gardening but there were plenty of things I can do to help the group, like writing letters or press releases or helping with drawings and displays.”

Last year, I had to have emergency surgery and wasn’t well for a while. Then my husband was ill and in hospital for over two months. All the way through that difficult time, my neighbours and friends from Chipping in Bloom were kind and supportive. I am struggling for words to express how much they helped me, and how grateful I am to them for quietly and unfussily being there when I needed a rock to cling to.

“Chipping in Bloom has given me a purpose, and the people involved offer true friendship.”

I found this quote – that I think summarises it perfectly:

“Friendship is the golden thread that ties the heart of all the world.”

– John Evelyn, English writer, gardener and diarist, 1620-1706

In 2024, Chipping in Bloom was selected to represent the North West region in the UK Finals of Britain in Bloom. For me, this is justified not only by how lovely the village looks, but by how warm and welcoming the people involved are, and how gardening is helping friendships to blossom and thrive.

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